Sunday, June 25, 2017
The #1 Way To Improve The World
Much of what we see each day, especially through our media and our own minds, tends to be focused on the negative. We tend to see what is wrong with people and situations. It could be bad weather, bad people, bad service or bad news. Or, all of the above.
The media focuses on these bad things because it attracts and holds viewers which in turn sells advertising. Our minds focus on bad things because it is trying to help us survive by keeping us safe and out of bad situations.
But, the world is not all bad.
There are situations that are good. There are things that are getting better. There are people and situations that can inspire us and make us feel good. But, only if we choose to see those situations.
Whether it is a good situation or a bad one. It could probably be better. Obviously, we want bad things to be better. And, if you can make a good thing better, why not?
So, what do you do? What can you do to improve the world?
First, recognize what you can control and not control.
You cannot control the weather. Complaining about the weather is a waste of time and energy. And, you cast off a negative vibe to the world. You simply deal with it.
You cannot control the economy. Whether inflation if high or low, whether interest rates are high or low, or whether the market is high or low is not under your control. You simply deal with it.
You cannot control world events. Terrorism, natural disasters and political scandal are going to happen. You cannot control them. You simply deal with them.
How do you deal with things you can't control? You deal with them with something you can control. Your attitude and response to them.
Your attitude and the way you respond are within your control. You get to choose how you think and respond in every situation. It is your choice.
So, the #1 way to improve the world is to improve yourself.
Of all the things you can control in the world. You and your choices are the things you control the most. And, when you improve your choices, you improve yourself and, in turn, improve the world.
If all 7 billion of us focused on just improving ourselves, the breadth of our collective human potential is absolutely staggering.
There is another way to improve the world.
Another way is not something you control but something you influence. This can be a very grey area because your influence operates along a continuum or a spectrum. Some things you have a lot of influence over and some things not so much.
You can't control the economy but you can influence it. When you buy things you influence the economy. But, let's be honest, your greatest purchase, usually your home, is insignificant on the overall economy. You have low influence here. But, in other areas you have high influence.
You can't control other people. But, you can influence them. Some you can influence to a greater degree than others. If you've ever had children you can experience the change of how much influence you have over their lifetimes. As infants you have a great deal of influence. But, as a teenager...well, let's just say not as much.
So, the #1 way to improve the world is to improve yourself. Improve your mind, body and spirit. Seek to find your potential. If you do this everyday, your ability to contribute to the world increases. If you don't, it diminishes.
How do you improve yourself?